Será Que Devo Continuar A Ter Uma Amizade Com O Meu Ex?

After a breakup, there are usually two types of situations. You’re either in a conflict with your ex and the breakup didn’t lead to a “calm after the storm”, or you’re lucky enough to be able to have a platonic and healthy relationship after a breakup that “went well.”

We are going to discuss this topic here in Live Like Chellito! There is a type of relationship between exes that you may not have been expecting. There is no more love between you but you realize your ex-wants to stay friends… and a friendship begins to spike.

You are, however, taken by surprise at your ex’s attempts to get closer. You’re thinking that this isn’t what you actually want deep down, but this will at least allow you to still be in contact with this person that you care so much about. You’re going to take advantage of this, therefore, keep in touch.

Whether the situation is making you happy or making you feel anxious, you don’t really know what to do so you’re going to have to put things into perspective before you act. If it’s better to not be in conflict with your ex, does it mean that it’s a good idea to be friends!? My ex-wants to stay friends! For some people, this idea breaks their heart because they’re still in love with the person and they want to get back together.

Why does my ex want to be friends after we break up?

My ex-wants to be friends!? well... I know when you read this for the first time you will probably think that's a comeback and he or she still in love with you, that's a no-no! But wait, There are couple reasons that lead to this comeback. It means that they still care about you. At this point, we might not know in what way they care for you, but in any case, it’s a good sign!

Sometimes an ex-wants to keep you nearby simply because you two have become so close, and the bond that exists between you is too precious to just throw away. This can happen with relationships that lasted a long time or a short time.

Your ex wants to be friends but you don’t want to be in contact anymore

For some people when a relationship ends it means that it’s over and that you’re not supposed to keep seeing each other and be in touch for months or even years! There are of course certain situations in which it’s not easy to cut all contact and no longer be in touch, it means you have to delete all social media, cut friends that you had in contact that's a lot! But it all depends what kind of relationship you both had and when you break up all the bond that you both had will lead to a friendship or not. 

women's perspective: Once they went through your pants there's no such a "brother" but if there's children's involved, of course, it's important to have a co-parent and friendship to make sure they live in a healthy environment... Otherwise, when I break up, I break up with you, your mama, your aunt and your sister!

 

Marcelo Van DunemComment